Stuck in a Loop with No Way Forward

Maria BM, age 39, Petaling Jaya, Selangor

Modality: DYP Level 1 + 2 hours Private Consultation

Presenting Issue: Stuck in a loop with no way forward

Backstory: Maria has dabbled in a bit of mindset work but has never given thought to alternative therapies, especially those which involved energy work, no matter how subtle it may be. She decided to try Decode Your Pain (DYP) as it's built on a foundation of science, and that is something she could resonate with. She wasn't ready for the 1:1 healing session but she wanted to find the reason behind her struggle so she went with Level 1 (root cause discovery only), and added 2 hours of private consultation to her session so she could share her story and get a feel of where Decode Your Pain can take her from there.

Maria is a strong-willed and independant woman. She worked hard to get what she want and as a result of that, earned herself a good life. Everything was good until the pandemic, and like many out there, Maria lost her stability and could never recover. She tried a lot of ways to get back on her feet and everything she did would take off well but could never go past a certain point. In her words, "it is like every time I am about to cross the finish line, someone puts up a barrier and stops me there". She was tired, frustrated, and feels like she is losing the good life and freedom she had worked so hard to build.

Discovery: Because Maria had booked 2 hours of consultation with her DYP Root Cause Discovery, we had the opportunity to do some breathwork and some assessment of her situation. She even opened herself up to doing some simple meditation which helped her prepare her subconscious mind for the assessment. It was discovered that the hidden cause of Maria's struggle is the trauma she experienced, growing up. Without going into too much sensitive details, Maria did not have a good relationship with her mother. Her mother dictated her life and demanded a lot from her, and when she could not meet her mother's expectations, Maria was subjected to verbal abuse and was made to feel unworthy.

Her current lack of resources and the fear of losing her freedom triggered this old trauma of being controlled in a stressful situation, where no matter how hard she tried, nothing will work out as expected. Maria realized how she is feeling now is EXACTLY the same way she always felt, growing up with her mother. We also discovered some of her mother's personality attached to her. Maria also heard her mother's angry, criticising voice during our discovery, telling her how nothing she does will ever be useful or be worth anything.

Outcome: Maria understands that she needs to clear this traumatic experience she has suppressed, and realize that she is no longer under her mother's control. She needs to release that subconscious condition she has locked in her mind and body, which is causing similar struggles to achieve success. She also understands that she needs to resolve the relationship dynamics with her mother, and to clear that part of her mother's personality which was attached to her. While she processes all these and work towards preparing herself for a 1:1 DYP Healing Session, we discussed some tools she could use to help her manage her emotions and the obstacles she is facing.

Client's message: "I am speechless and amazed. Never did I imagine discovering something so deep. I understand now what you say about how we are conditioned to downplay our traumas, and how that can impact our lives in such a big way. For the first time in a long time, things make sense. I have more clarity now. This also definitely made me more open to alternative healing, because no amount of pills can give me this clarity or help me understand why things are happening this way. I discovered the real reason behind my almost-5-years of struggles in 2 hours! How amazing is that! I am so happy I did this. Thank you so much."